Speak from your power and not from your pain. The pains in life are constant, but not perpetual. I am the only Perpetual Force in this world. Your pain is temporary, you will survive and there is an expiration date.
I am standing here on the other side of this, standing in your victory. MY blood is Gilead’s balm and I AM here for anything you may endure. Use each emotion to understand the pain and to empathize on behalf of the hurting.
Those that are in pain, especially a perpetual pain, see the world through different lenses. Their defense mechanisms are simple contraptions designed from not wanting to hurt again. If you can love them beyond the pain, you may get access to their heart.
Can you love past the pain? Can you take abuse for MY sake in order to help a hurting heart? Remember what I brought you through and use that hurt for MY good. If you decide to stand, I will supply the power and the anointing to heal.
Psalms 34:17-22
The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; he delivers them from all their troubles. The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit. The righteous person may have many troubles, but the Lord delivers him from them all; he protects all his bones, not one of them will be broken. Evil will slay the wicked; the foes of the righteous will be condemned. The Lord will rescue his servants; no one who takes refuge in him will be condemned.
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