You are alive, though tattered and bruised. Life is still yours and all that has been lost and gained, are the lessons. You have the answers to the questions, that many or fearful to ask.
As Jesus spoke to Peter saying, on this truth (cornerstone) I will build my church and the gates of hell, cannot prevail. The cornerstone becomes clear, the eternal is built on truth, then the cornerstones of your life, must be the same.
All that you have seen and conquered are the building blocks of your very hope. Many mistake what is seen, as permanent and the unseen is not considered. The kingdom of heaven is built by the substance and evidence of things unseen.
In that, be humble and thankful for each bruise, each scar, every hurt and all the rejections. Why, because they have built the unseen, the truth and the eternal bricks of your FAITH.
And I say also to you, That you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church; and the gates of hell shall not prevail against it.