The spirit of resentment, disappointment, disillusionment, fear and trauma are rebuked. Your empathy needs a refreshing, to be strategic and highly effective for the Kingdom.
Resentment is a state of disappointment.
Disappointment is the difference between an expectation and the actual. Over time disappointment, after disappointment breeds disillusionment. This is where the worst is expected and presumed.
Trauma can be physical, mental or spiritual, simultaneously. Requiring the healing to be sought and sent on each level. The result of trauma is pain, the result of pain is fear.
As you speak life, it must be demonstrative in your tone and the manner in which you speak. It must be genuine, with hearts in mind. You must be consistent in seeking to understand and hearing ME, on their behalf. You are holding a life in your hand, do not rush it. It will take, the time it takes.
There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.