Look for Naomi and not for Boaz. Ruth endured losing much, but was restored by a kinsman redeemer. You have a kinsman redeemer in MY Son, Jesus. Boaz represents the promise and a hope for a better tomorrow.
Eternity is covered and you will meet ME there, but you need power in the now, meaning that Heaven must come to earth. Whatever is bound here is bound there and what you loose there is loosed here.
You are Ruth and need flesh covered wisdom to accomplish MY assignments for you. To bind your selfishness, bitterness and disappointments and to loose wisdom, humility and freedom.
Find a Naomi and submit yourself, one that is wise, experienced and patient in the matters and concerns of this Life. Look for wisdom, versus the next opportunity, Naomi’s wisdom will prepare you to fully embrace this coming time.
Ruth 3:3-4
Now do as I tell you—take a bath and put on perfume and dress in your nicest clothes. Then go to the threshing floor, but don’t let Boaz see you until he has finished eating and drinking. Be sure to notice where he lies down; then go and uncover his feet and lie down there. He will tell you what to do.”