It is still beautiful, though pain is all around you. It is still wonderful, even it hurts crack a smile. It is still bountiful, no matter what the accounts say. It is still hopeful, despite what your emotions say.
Whether good or bad, up or down, exciting or mundane, curious or boring, justified or unjust, sad or happy, kind or cruel this is the moment in which you stand, make the most it.
Grieving has a place and regret can be an impactful teacher, but this is not a time to be inconsolable. You have to be aware and cognizant of what is and what is not. What are the facts and then apply faith.
The beautiful is where you find it and it is found, if you look intently. The hopeful are living the same lives as the discouraged. Their outcomes are different, because of the beauty they behold.
Ecclesiastes 3:11
He has made everything beautiful and appropriate in its time. He has also planted eternity [a sense of divine purpose] in the human heart [a mysterious longing which nothing under the sun can satisfy, except God]—yet man cannot find out (comprehend, grasp) what God has done (His overall plan) from the beginning to the end.
I Might Be a Prophet 