The darkest moment is just before the light. Your hardest times are known, due to the contrast between the good times. The hurtful and the happy are merely moments in time.
As a woman births a child, in the midst of the pain, she says never again. Only to have more children, later. Her words were true, while overwhelmed with pain, but when the pain passed her opinion changed, yet still true.
This time, that you are currently experiencing will pass and the conclusions made while hurt are likely to be revised. Fully embrace the season you are in, but be mindful it is a season.
The pain is real, but it will not last forever. The experience has a purpose, but it must be placed in perspective. What you are feeling is real, but it is not the totality of your reality.
Jeremiah 31:25
I will refresh the weary and satisfy the faint.”
I Might Be a Prophet 