Own your parts, when a relationship fails each has a role in the demise. The percentages are not important, what matters is to evaluate your contribution and the behaviors, that led to the death.
Emotions can lead astray and feelings can make liars of us all. A passion that is not filtered through a principle will cause much pain. Zeal is neither good or bad, but becomes a terrible thing, when applied to the carnal.
A short fuse is dangerous for the warriors and the combatants all the same. When emotions take over, logic is lost. When offense becomes a god, all subjects suffer. Under the god of offense, the earth is scorched.
Neither male, nor female, righteous, nor unrighteous, innocent, nor guilty is safe under the reign of the offended. The lord of the offended is Satan himself, as he and his demons tumbled from Heaven, the spirits of anger, offense and fear were birth.
Ezekiel 28:15-16
“You were blameless in all you did from the day you were created until the day evil was found in you. Your rich commerce led you to violence, and you sinned. So I banished you in disgrace from the mountain of God. I expelled you, O mighty guardian, from your place among the stones of fire.
I Might Be a Prophet 