Do realize, it is not them it is you? The only way to become a better person is in taking ownership for what you did, what you said and how you behaved. You must hold yourself to a standard and become accountable, to you.
It is easy to point the finger and cast the blame on others. The hard thing and the right thing is far more difficult. Can you remove the victims mindset and replace what is best for you, by doing the best for others?
No one in this world is responsible for you, except for you. The impression people have, the reputation you created and the way you make other people feel is completely your burden. Own who you are and who you have been.
The challenge comes in the reconciling. When you are confronted with the reality, that who you have represented yourself to be and the reality are completely different. Do you have the power to admit it or do you blame the world?
I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak, for by your words you will be justified, and by your words you will be condemned.”