I equip each one: the victim, the villain and the victor for MY ultimate Glory. All have a role in perfecting you and in causing the treasure placed deep inside to be extracted. Adam decided it through sin and I have come to remove its sting.
The victim knows ME through humility and acts of humiliation. All pride and honor are removed through a series of experiences, designed to break your will. It feels unbearable and unfair, because it is. The old you will not survive and a new you will emerge.
The villain is blessed by knowing what he is capable of, his hands are not clean and sows seed, that he hopelessly cannot bear. He eventually will be confronted for his behaviors and I will be glorified, either in his deliverance or his demise.
The victor is the one that uses every experience and finds traces of MY handiwork, throughout each trial. Everything has a purpose. When you can focus on MY hand and not the hurt, you become the one who controls and is no longer controlled.
Proverbs 16:4
The Lord has made everything for its purpose, even the wicked for the day of trouble.