You do not need a special formula, you do not need a special set of instructions, you do not even need a special touch, the only thing you need to do is to be consistent.
Obedience is the most difficult and the most challenging discipline, to both master and maintain. It is no small task, to remain steadfast in the face of all, that is seemingly contradictory, to MY plans.
In this struggle of reality, in contrast, to expectations is the work and the hard thing. This is the space where spiritual muscles are built and long suffering is tried, tested and proven.
What you do with disappointment is a reflection of your character. Your character is the version of you, that emanates from within, while under pressures. This is who you truly are.
Walk in obedience to all that the Lord your God has commanded you, so that you may live and prosper and prolong your days in the land that you will possess.